Sometimes I confuse my left and right…I can’t even.
kelcy

yer-mind-grows-numb:

current goal:

DO NOT develop a crush on every boy who is nice to me

(via themagicoakleaf)

My poor little toes….they’ll be glad for a rest day tomorrow :( #running #marathon #chi2014 #ragnar #toes #blood #nopainnogain

My poor little toes….they’ll be glad for a rest day tomorrow :( #running #marathon #chi2014 #ragnar #toes #blood #nopainnogain

breakupnotes:

A Note on Grieving
It’s been a little more than a week since the breakup and I’m doing surprisingly well.  I haven’t melted into an inconsolable pile of stretchy pants and Ben & Jerry’s, which is promising.
I went to a therapist to talk through this transitional phase, because that seemed like the kind of thing I would do.  As soon as I sat down on her couch, I started crying.  ”Feelings!” I thought.  ”There you are! I missed you!”
I only cry when I’m talking about the breakup, and since I’m not really talking about it, I’m not crying.  My therapist told me that I might be in shock and numb to everything, but that I need to acknowledge that I had a loss and that I should let myself grieve.
So here I am.  Grieving.  Pouring one out for this relationship.

breakupnotes:

A Note on Grieving

It’s been a little more than a week since the breakup and I’m doing surprisingly well.  I haven’t melted into an inconsolable pile of stretchy pants and Ben & Jerry’s, which is promising.

I went to a therapist to talk through this transitional phase, because that seemed like the kind of thing I would do.  As soon as I sat down on her couch, I started crying.  ”Feelings!” I thought.  ”There you are! I missed you!”

I only cry when I’m talking about the breakup, and since I’m not really talking about it, I’m not crying.  My therapist told me that I might be in shock and numb to everything, but that I need to acknowledge that I had a loss and that I should let myself grieve.

So here I am.  Grieving.  Pouring one out for this relationship.

// The Vicarious Victim//

taxonomyofmansplainers:

Finds a way to identify with any given experience (pertaining to sexuality, gender, etc), co-opts the discussion by proceeding to explain how YOU are in fact misunderstanding him.  

theawkwardlifeofapsycho:

Why is this not taught universally.

(Source: sfgifs, via themagicoakleaf)

grilledcheese4evr:

petalpunx:

stay away from people who make you feel like you are hard to love

This is the most important thing I have ever read.

(Source: noseblush, via themagicoakleaf)

(Source: littleflower96)

The most you ever thought you could handle.